I’ll bet you’ve had this conversation before too, eh? Sure you have. Well don’t try to fix it. You’re always trying to fix things. Stop that!
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Female verbalization is an end in itself, a catharsis. Male verbalization is goal-oriented - can't fix it? no point discussing it. Better to bury it somewhere deep and do something practical.
The smart man cultivates a look of rapt interest while giving his mind free rein wander.
The smart women doesn't badger her man about his silences or brooding in the work-shed. He'll spew it out in due course, or won't.